used before a singular noun to mean one of a group, when it is not a particular one
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
commonly used or practiced; usual
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
actionsnounUS /ˈækʃənz/
plural of “action” — something done (usually as opposed to something said)
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
tending to become more severe or wider in scope
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
(quantifier) used with either mass or count nouns to indicate the whole number or amount of or every one of a class
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
in addition
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
surrounded by; in the company of
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
used to join words or parts of a sentence that go together
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
clearly revealed to the mind or the senses or judgment
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
at the same time that; because; in the way that
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
in or near a particular place or position
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
attentiveadjectiveUS /əˈtentɪv/
(often followed by “to”) giving care or attention
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
the sister of your father or mother; the wife of your uncle
From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
beenauxiliary verbUS /bɪn/
the past participle of “be”
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
belowprepositionUS /bɪˈloʊ/
at or to a lower level than something
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
inflected form of “bring” — take something or somebody with oneself somewhere
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
used to introduce something that contrasts with what came before
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
inflected form of “come” — move toward, travel toward something or somebody or approach something or somebody
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
cause to change; make different; cause a transformation
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
compareverbUS /kəmˈper/
examine and note the similarities or differences of
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
-ing form of “consider” — deem to be
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
contactnounUS /ˈkɑːntækt/
close interaction
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
controllingadjectiveUS /kənˈtroʊlɪŋ/
able to control or determine policy
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
the past of “can”; used for possibility or polite requests
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
Dexie
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From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
Dexie's
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From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
didauxiliary verbUS /dɪd/
the past form of “do”, used in questions and negatives
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
a swinging or sliding barrier that will close the entrance to a room or building or vehicle
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
a phenomenon that follows and is caused by some previous phenomenon
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
divisible by two
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
exertverbUS /ɪɡˈzɜːrt/
put to use
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
considered likely or probable to happen or arrive
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
a social unit living together
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
undergo an emotional sensation or be in a particular state of mind
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
the act of determining the properties of something, usually by research or calculation
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
firstadjectiveUS /fɜːrst/
preceding all others in time or space or degree
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
intended to be given to, or used by, somebody
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
a young female
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
good-naturedadjective
having an easygoing and cheerful disposition
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
governednounUS /ˈɡʌvərnd/
the body of people who are citizens of a particular government
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
governsverbUS /ˈɡʌvərnz/
third-person singular of “govern” — bring into conformity with rules or principles or usage; impose regulations
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
(biology) the process of an individual organism growing organically; a purely biological unfolding of events involved in an organism changing gradually from a simple to a more complex level
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
GurneynounUS /ˈɡɜːrni/
a metal stretcher with wheels
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
Gurneys
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From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
hadauxiliary verbUS /hæd/
the past form of “have”, used to form the past perfect
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
HalifaxnounUS /ˈhælɪfæks/
provincial capital and largest city of Nova Scotia
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
haveauxiliary verbUS /hæv/
used with a past participle to form the perfect tenses
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
the locus of feelings and intuitions
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
belonging to a woman, girl, or female animal already mentioned
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
used when the woman or girl doing the action is also its object
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
a social unit living together
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
on condition that; in the event that
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
inside something, or within a place, period, or state
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
a power to affect persons or events especially power based on prestige etc
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
located inward
From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
marked by close acquaintance, association, or familiarity
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
a thing, animal, or idea already mentioned
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
Jennie
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From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
a characteristic state or mode of living
From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
light-heartedadjective
carefree and happy and lighthearted
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
prefer or wish to do something
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
limited or below average in number or quantity or magnitude or extent
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
plural of “life” — a characteristic state or mode of living
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
perceive with attention; direct one's gaze towards
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
(comparative of “much” used with mass nouns) a quantifier meaning greater in size or amount or extent or degree
From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
motivenounUS /ˈmoʊtɪv/
the psychological feature that arouses an organism to action toward a desired goal; the reason for the action; that which gives purpose and direction to behavior
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
to a great degree or extent
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
the essential qualities or characteristics by which something is recognized
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
neighborsnounUS /ˈneɪbərz/
plural of “neighbor” — a person who lives (or is located) near another
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
immediately following in time or order
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
used to make a word, phrase, or sentence negative
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
belonging to, or connected with, somebody or something
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
touching and supported by a surface
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
overprepositionUS /ˈoʊvər/
above and across; more than
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
have ownership or possession of
From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
plural of “parent” — a father or mother; one who begets or one who gives birth to or nurtures and raises a child; a relative who plays the role of guardian
From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
by chance
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
possession of controlling influence
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
be fully aware or cognizant of
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
rootnounUS /ruːt/
(botany) the usually underground organ that lacks buds or leaves or nodes; absorbs water and mineral salts; usually it anchors the plant to the ground
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
Identical; not different.
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
cut with a saw
From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
past form of “seem” — give a certain impression or have a certain outward aspect
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
a woman, girl, or female animal already mentioned, as the subject
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
plural of “sign” — a perceptible indication of something not immediately apparent (as a visible clue that something has happened)
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
for that reason; with the result that
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
depleted of energy, force, or strength
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
first day of the week; observed as a day of rest and worship by most Christians
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
the outer boundary of an artifact or a material layer constituting or resembling such a boundary
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
taken unawares or suddenly and feeling wonder or astonishment
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
used to introduce the second part of a comparison
From this reading Aunt Jennie saw more of Dexie's inner life than did her own parents.
used to introduce what somebody said, thought, or felt
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
used before a noun that is already known, already mentioned, or the only one of its kind
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
belonging to the people or things already mentioned
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
the people or things already mentioned, as the object
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
used when the people doing the action are also its object
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
the people, animals, or things already mentioned, as the subject
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
used for a person or thing that is near, or that has just been mentioned
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
the plural of “that”: the people or things further away, or already known
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
the content of cognition; the main thing you are thinking about
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
thoughtfuladjectiveUS /ˈθɔːtfəl/
having intellectual depth
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
an instance or single occasion for some event
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
used before the base form of a verb to make the infinitive
From this reading As Dexie was so intimate with the family, and spent so much of her time amongst them, she was the first to feel it, and the controlling power which governed the Gurney household was finding root in her heart also.
unconsciouslyadverbUS /ˌʌnˈkɑːnʃəsli/
without awareness
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
wasauxiliary verbUS /wɑːz/
the past form of “be” used with I, he, she, it, or a singular noun
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
wereauxiliary verbUS /wɜːr/
the past form of “be” used with you, we, they, or a plural noun
From this reading She did not realize this herself, but the signs were apparent to those accustomed to look below the surface for the motive that governs all actions.
used to ask for information about something
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
at the time that
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
used to introduce a clause giving more about a thing just mentioned
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
in the company of; together with
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
not having, not using, or not accompanied by
From this reading The influence which a family like the Gurneys unconsciously exert over those brought in contact with them, was not without effect on the lives of their next door neighbors.
used for something imagined, polite, or habitual in the past
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.
but in spite of that
From this reading To them she seemed the same good-natured, light-hearted girl, growing, perhaps, a little more thoughtful and attentive than they could have expected, considering her active nature; yet, if they had thought to compare even the Sunday life of the household with what it had been when they first came to Halifax, they would have been surprised at the change in themselves.