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The Etiquette of Engagement and Marriage
The Etiquette of Engagement and Marriage

Chapter VIII

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_Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.
The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.
The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.
The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.
The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.
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The Etiquette of Engagement and Marriage

Chapter VIII

Chapter 8 of The Etiquette of Engagement and Marriage is here in full — 71 sentences across 15 reading sections, with audio for every sentence and word.

Reading 1/14 · 5 reading units · Lines 1–5

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_Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.
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The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.
/ðə moʊdz ʌv ˈmeɪkɪŋ æn ˈɔːfər ʌv ˈmerɪdʒ ɑːr æz ˈmænəfoʊld æz ðə maɪndz ʌv ðə men huː meɪk ðem/
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The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.
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The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.
/ðə ˌɪmˈpʌlsɪv ˈlʌvər wɪl biː ˈkærid əˈweɪ baɪ ə weɪv ʌv ɪˈmoʊʃən ənd pərˈhæps bɪˈfɔːr hiː hæz ˈrɪli meɪd ʌp hɪz maɪnd wɪl pɔːr aʊt ðə fɜːrst ˈpæʃənət wɜːrdz ðæt kʌm tuː hɪz lɪps/
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The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

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These definitions explain words found in the current reading and keep every example grounded in its original sentence.

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dominated adjective US /ˈdɑːməneɪtəd/

controlled or ruled by superior authority or power

From this reading “The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.”

Initiative noun US /ˌɪˈnɪʃətɪv/

readiness to embark on bold new ventures

From this reading “_Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.”

manifold noun US /ˈmænəfoʊld/

a pipe that has several lateral outlets to or from other pipes

From this reading “The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.”

modes noun US /moʊdz/

plural of “mode” — how something is done or how it happens

From this reading “The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.”

Premeditated adjective US /priˈmedəteɪtɪd/

characterized by deliberate purpose and some degree of planning

From this reading “_Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.”

Proposals noun US /prəˈpoʊzəlz/

plural of “proposal” — something proposed (such as a plan or assumption)

From this reading “_Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.”

Unseemly adjective US /ənˈsiːmli/

not in keeping with accepted standards of what is right or proper in polite society

From this reading “_Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.”

Worded verb US /ˈwɜːrdɪd/

past form of “word” — put into words or an expression

From this reading “_Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.”

Word partnerships in these lines

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Shown as this reading writes them, with the form the library counts, what kind of pairing it is, and how often it occurs.

measured terms adjective + noun

In this reading “The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.”

lose sight verb + noun

In this reading “The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.”

take the Initiative verb + article + noun counted as “take … initiative”

In this reading “_Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.”

pour out verb + adjective

express without restraint

In this reading “The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.”

carried away verb + particle counted as “carry away”

remove from a certain place, environment, or mental or emotional state; transport into a new location or state

In this reading “The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.”

passionate words adjective + noun

In this reading “The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.”

business man noun + noun

In this reading “The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.”

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adeterminerUS /ə/

used before a singular noun to mean one of a group, when it is not a particular one

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

advantagesnounUS /ædˈvæntɪdʒɪz/

plural of “advantage” — the quality of having a superior or more favorable position

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

andeterminerUS /æn/

the form of “a” used before a word that begins with a vowel sound

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

andconjunctionUS /ənd/

used to join words or parts of a sentence that go together

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

areauxiliary verbUS /ɑːr/

the form of “be” used with you, we, they, or a plural noun

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

asconjunctionUS /æz/

at the same time that; because; in the way that

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

AvoidverbUS /əˈvɔɪd/

stay clear from; keep away from; keep out of the way of someone or something

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

awayadverbUS /əˈweɪ/

from a particular thing or place or position (“forth” is obsolete)

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

beauxiliary verbUS /biː/

used with a past participle to form the passive, or with -ing for continuous tenses

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

beforeprepositionUS /bɪˈfɔːr/

earlier than; in front of

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

beforehandadjectiveUS /bɪˈfɔːrhænd/

being ahead of time or need

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

businessnounUS /ˈbɪznəs/

a commercial or industrial enterprise and the people who constitute it

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

byprepositionUS /baɪ/

showing who or what does the action

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

carefullyadverbUS /ˈkerfəli/

taking care or paying attention

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

carriedverbUS /ˈkærid/

inflected form of “carry” — move while supporting, either in a vehicle or in one's hands or on one's body

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

cautiousadjectiveUS /ˈkɔːʃəs/

showing careful forethought

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

ChoosingverbUS /ˈtʃuːzɪŋ/

-ing form of “choose” — pick out, select, or choose from a number of alternatives

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

clear-headed

Dictionary entry pending editorial verification. Tap Listen to hear the word.

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

comeverbUS /kʌm/

move toward, travel toward something or somebody or approach something or somebody

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

couchnounUS /kaʊtʃ/

an upholstered seat for more than one person

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

DangerousadjectiveUS /ˈdeɪndʒərəs/

involving or causing danger or risk; liable to hurt or harm

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

dominatedadjectiveUS /ˈdɑːməneɪtəd/

controlled or ruled by superior authority or power

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

emotionnounUS /ɪˈmoʊʃən/

any strong feeling

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

everadverbUS /ˈevər/

at any time

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

firstadjectiveUS /fɜːrst/

preceding all others in time or space or degree

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

fromprepositionUS /frʌm/

showing where something starts, or who sent it

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

gainedverbUS /ɡeɪnd/

past form of “gain” — obtain

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

hasauxiliary verbUS /hæz/

the form of “have” used with he, she, it, or a singular noun

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

HastenounUS /heɪst/

overly eager speed (and possible carelessness)

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

hepronounUS /hiː/

a man, boy, or male animal already mentioned, as the subject

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

headnounUS /hed/

the upper part of the human body or the front part of the body in animals; contains the face and brains

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

heartnounUS /hɑːrt/

the locus of feelings and intuitions

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

hisdeterminerUS /hɪz/

belonging to a man, boy, or male animal already mentioned

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

HumournounUS /ˈhjuːmər/

a characteristic (habitual or relatively temporary) state of feeling

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

impulsiveadjectiveUS /ˌɪmˈpʌlsɪv/

proceeding from natural feeling or impulse without external stimulus

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

inprepositionUS /ɪn/

inside something, or within a place, period, or state

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

InitiativenounUS /ˌɪˈnɪʃətɪv/

readiness to embark on bold new ventures

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

InsultnounUS /ˌɪnˈsʌlt/

a rude expression intended to offend or hurt

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

isauxiliary verbUS /ɪz/

the form of “be” used with he, she, it, or a singular noun

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

KeenadjectiveUS /kiːn/

having or demonstrating ability to recognize or draw fine distinctions

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

lipsnounUS /lɪps/

plural of “lip” — either of two fleshy folds of tissue that surround the mouth and play a role in speaking

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

long-headedadjective

having a dolichocephalic head

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

loseverbUS /luːz/

fail to keep or to maintain; cease to have, either physically or in an abstract sense

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

lovernounUS /ˈlʌvər/

a person who loves someone or is loved by someone

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

madeadjectiveUS /meɪd/

produced by a manufacturing process

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

makeverbUS /meɪk/

engage in

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

makingnounUS /ˈmeɪkɪŋ/

the act that results in something coming to be

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

mannounUS /mæn/

an adult person who is male (as opposed to a woman)

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

manifoldnounUS /ˈmænəfoʊld/

a pipe that has several lateral outlets to or from other pipes

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

MarriagenounUS /ˈmerɪdʒ/

the state of being a married couple voluntarily joined for life (or until divorce)

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

maymodal verbUS /meɪ/

used to say something is possible, or to give permission

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

measuredadjectiveUS /ˈmeʒərd/

having notes of fixed rhythmic value

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

mennounUS /men/

the force of workers available

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

mindnounUS /maɪnd/

The element of a person that enables awareness and thought.

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

mindsnounUS /maɪndz/

plural of “mind” — that which is responsible for one's thoughts, feelings, and conscious brain functions; the seat of the faculty of reason

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

moderateverbUS /ˈmɑːdərət/

preside over

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

modesnounUS /moʊdz/

plural of “mode” — how something is done or how it happens

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

NodeterminerUS /noʊ/

not any; not one

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

notadverbUS /nɑːt/

used to make a word, phrase, or sentence negative

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

ofprepositionUS /ʌv/

belonging to, or connected with, somebody or something

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

offerverbUS /ˈɔːfər/

make available or accessible, provide or furnish

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

OffersnounUS /ˈɔːfərz/

plural of “offer” — the verbal act of offering

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

OpportunitynounUS /ˌɑːpərˈtuːnəti/

a possibility due to a favorable combination of circumstances

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

orconjunctionUS /ɔːr/

used to join alternatives or possibilities

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

outadjectiveUS /aʊt/

not allowed to continue to bat or run

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

passionateadjectiveUS /ˈpæʃənət/

having or expressing strong emotions

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

perhapsadverbUS /pərˈhæps/

by chance

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

PossibleadjectiveUS /ˈpɑːsəbəl/

capable of happening or existing

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

pourverbUS /pɔːr/

cause to run

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

PracticaladjectiveUS /ˈpræktəkəl/

concerned with actual use or practice

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

PremeditatedadjectiveUS /priˈmedəteɪtɪd/

characterized by deliberate purpose and some degree of planning

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

ProposalsnounUS /prəˈpoʊzəlz/

plural of “proposal” — something proposed (such as a plan or assumption)

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

reallyadverbUS /ˈrɪli/

in accordance with truth or fact or reality

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

RomanticadjectiveUS /roʊˈmæntɪk/

belonging to or characteristic of Romanticism or the Romantic Movement in the arts

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

RulenounUS /ruːl/

a principle or condition that customarily governs behavior

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

SensenounUS /sens/

a general conscious awareness

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

SentimentnounUS /ˈsentəmənt/

tender, romantic, or nostalgic feeling or emotion

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

ShepronounUS /ʃiː/

a woman, girl, or female animal already mentioned, as the subject

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

sightnounUS /saɪt/

an instance of visual perception

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

situationnounUS /ˌsɪtʃuːˈeɪʃən/

the general state of things; the combination of circumstances at a given time

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

SomeadjectiveUS /sʌm/

(quantifier) used with either mass nouns or plural count nouns to indicate an unspecified number or quantity

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

SpontaneousadjectiveUS /spɑːnˈteɪniəs/

happening or arising without apparent external cause

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

suggestsverbUS /səˈdʒests/

third-person singular of “suggest” — make a proposal, declare a plan for something

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

TactnounUS /tækt/

consideration in dealing with others and avoiding giving offense

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

takeverbUS /teɪk/

carry out

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

termsnounUS /tɜːrmz/

status with respect to the relations between people or groups

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

thatconjunctionUS /ðæt/

used to introduce what somebody said, thought, or felt

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

thedeterminerUS /ðə/

used before a noun that is already known, already mentioned, or the only one of its kind

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

thempronounUS /ðem/

the people or things already mentioned, as the object

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

ThingsnounUS /θɪŋz/

any movable possession (especially articles of clothing)

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

thinkverbUS /θɪŋk/

judge or regard; look upon; judge

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

toparticleUS /tuː/

used before the base form of a verb to make the infinitive

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

unionnounUS /ˈjuːnjən/

an organization of employees formed to bargain with the employer

From this reading The clear-headed business man will not lose sight of the practical advantages to be gained from the union he suggests.

UnseemlyadjectiveUS /ənˈsiːmli/

not in keeping with accepted standards of what is right or proper in polite society

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

upadjectiveUS /ʌp/

being or moving higher in position or greater in some value; being above a former position or level

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

VaguelyadverbUS /ˈveɪɡli/

in a vague way

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

wavenounUS /weɪv/

one of a series of ridges that moves across the surface of a liquid (especially across a large body of water)

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

WhenconjunctionUS /wen/

at the time that

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

whopronounUS /huː/

which person or people

From this reading The modes of making an offer of marriage are as manifold as the minds of the men who make them.

whosedeterminerUS /huːz/

belonging to which person

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

willmodal verbUS /wɪl/

used to talk about the future, or about willingness

From this reading The cautious, long-headed man, whose heart is ever dominated by his head, will think out the situation carefully beforehand, and couch his offer in moderate and measured terms.

WomannounUS /ˈwʊmən/

an adult female person (as opposed to a man)

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

WordedverbUS /ˈwɜːrdɪd/

past form of “word” — put into words or an expression

From this reading _Proposals: Premeditated, Spontaneous, Practical, or Romantic--No Rule Possible--Tact in Choosing the Opportunity--Unseemly Haste an Insult to a Woman--Keen Sense of Humour Dangerous to Sentiment--Some Things to Avoid--Vaguely Worded Offers--When She may take the Initiative._ Proposals of Marriage.

wordsnounUS /wɜːrdz/

the words that are spoken

From this reading The impulsive lover will be carried away by a wave of emotion, and, perhaps before he has really made up his mind, will pour out the first passionate words that come to his lips.

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