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The Etiquette of Engagement and Marriage

Chapter XXII

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_Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.
In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.
"How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"
True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.
Marrying for love need not mean improvidence.
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The Etiquette of Engagement and Marriage

Chapter XXII

Chapter 22 of The Etiquette of Engagement and Marriage is here in full — 74 sentences across 15 reading sections, with audio for every sentence and word.

Reading 1/14 · 5 reading units · Lines 1–5

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_Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.
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In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.
/ɪn spaɪt ʌv ɔːl ðæt ðə ˈsɪnɪks ənd ˈpesəmɪsts meɪ seɪ lʌv ʃʊd biː ðə lɔːrd ʌv ˈmerɪdʒ/
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"How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"
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True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.
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Marrying for love need not mean improvidence.

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bearable adjective US /ˈberəbəl/

capable of being borne though unpleasant

From this reading “True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.”

Concluding adjective US /kənˈkluːdɪŋ/

occurring at or forming an end or termination

From this reading “_Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.”

cynics noun US /ˈsɪnɪks/

plural of “cynic” — someone who is critical of the motives of others

From this reading “In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.”

evils noun US /ˈiːvəlz/

plural of “evil” — morally objectionable behavior

From this reading “True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.”

lightened verb US /ˈlaɪtənd/

past form of “lighten” — make more cheerful

From this reading “True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.”

Love's noun US /lʌvz/

possessive form of “love” — a strong positive emotion of regard and affection

From this reading “"How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"”

pessimists noun US /ˈpesəmɪsts/

plural of “pessimist” — a person who expects the worst

From this reading “In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.”

yoke noun US /joʊk/

fabric comprising a fitted part at the top of a garment

From this reading “"How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"”

Word partnerships in these lines

English keeps certain words together, and knowing the pair is worth more than knowing each word alone. Every partnership below was counted across our whole published library, and earns its place by appearing far more often than two unrelated words of the same frequency would.

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In spite preposition + noun

In this reading “In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.”

married pair adjective + noun

In this reading “True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.”

exist without verb + particle

In this reading “True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.”

True happiness adjective + noun

In this reading “True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.”

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adeterminerUS /ə/

used before a singular noun to mean one of a group, when it is not a particular one

From this reading _Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.

alladjectiveUS /ɔːl/

(quantifier) used with either mass or count nouns to indicate the whole number or amount of or every one of a class

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

andconjunctionUS /ənd/

used to join words or parts of a sentence that go together

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

areauxiliary verbUS /ɑːr/

the form of “be” used with you, we, they, or a plural noun

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

beauxiliary verbUS /biː/

used with a past participle to form the passive, or with -ing for continuous tenses

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

bearableadjectiveUS /ˈberəbəl/

capable of being borne though unpleasant

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

byprepositionUS /baɪ/

showing who or what does the action

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

cannot

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From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

ConcludingadjectiveUS /kənˈkluːdɪŋ/

occurring at or forming an end or termination

From this reading _Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.

cynicsnounUS /ˈsɪnɪks/

plural of “cynic” — someone who is critical of the motives of others

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

evilsnounUS /ˈiːvəlz/

plural of “evil” — morally objectionable behavior

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

exaltedadjectiveUS /ɪɡˈzɔːltɪd/

of high moral or intellectual value; elevated in nature or style

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

existverbUS /ɪɡˈzɪst/

have an existence, be extant

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

firesnounUS /ˈfaɪərz/

plural of “fire” — the event of something burning (often destructive)

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

forprepositionUS /fɔːr/

intended to be given to, or used by, somebody

From this reading _Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.

greatadjectiveUS /ɡreɪt/

relatively large in size or number or extent; larger than others of its kind

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

happinessnounUS /ˈhæpinəs/

state of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

heavenlyadjectiveUS /ˈhevənli/

relating to or inhabiting a divine heaven

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

holynounUS /ˈhoʊli/

a sacred place of pilgrimage

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

HomenounUS /hoʊm/

where you live at a particular time

From this reading _Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.

HousekeepernounUS /ˈhaʊskiːpər/

a servant who is employed to perform domestic task in a household

From this reading _Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.

How

Dictionary entry pending editorial verification. Tap Listen to hear the word.

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

howeveradverbUS /ˌhaʊˈevər/

used to add a contrasting statement

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

improvidencenoun

a lack of prudence and care by someone in the management of resources

From this reading Marrying for love need not mean improvidence.

InprepositionUS /ɪn/

inside something, or within a place, period, or state

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

itpronounUS /ɪt/

a thing, animal, or idea already mentioned

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

itsdeterminerUS /ɪts/

belonging to the thing or animal already mentioned

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

lifenounUS /laɪf/

a characteristic state or mode of living

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

lightenedverbUS /ˈlaɪtənd/

past form of “lighten” — make more cheerful

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

LordnounUS /lɔːrd/

terms referring to the Judeo-Christian God

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

LovenounUS /lʌv/

a strong positive emotion of regard and affection

From this reading _Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.

Love'snounUS /lʌvz/

possessive form of “love” — a strong positive emotion of regard and affection

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

madeadjectiveUS /meɪd/

produced by a manufacturing process

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

maintainverbUS /meɪnˈteɪn/

cause to continue in a certain state, position, or activity; e.g., “keep clean”

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

MannounUS /mæn/

an adult person who is male (as opposed to a woman)

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

MarriagenounUS /ˈmerɪdʒ/

the state of being a married couple voluntarily joined for life (or until divorce)

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

marriedadjectiveUS /ˈmerid/

joined in matrimony

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

MarryingverbUS /ˈmeriɪŋ/

-ing form of “marry” — take in marriage

From this reading _Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.

maymodal verbUS /meɪ/

used to say something is possible, or to give permission

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

meanverbUS /miːn/

mean or intend to express or convey

From this reading Marrying for love need not mean improvidence.

MoneynounUS /ˈmʌni/

the most common medium of exchange; functions as legal tender

From this reading _Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.

mutualadjectiveUS /ˈmjuːtʃuːəl/

common to or shared by two or more parties

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

neednounUS /niːd/

a condition requiring relief

From this reading Marrying for love need not mean improvidence.

notadverbUS /nɑːt/

used to make a word, phrase, or sentence negative

From this reading Marrying for love need not mean improvidence.

ofprepositionUS /ʌv/

belonging to, or connected with, somebody or something

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

orconjunctionUS /ɔːr/

used to join alternatives or possibilities

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

pairnounUS /per/

a set of two similar things considered as a unit

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

pessimistsnounUS /ˈpesəmɪsts/

plural of “pessimist” — a person who expects the worst

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

positionnounUS /pəˈzɪʃən/

the particular portion of space occupied by something

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

presencenounUS /ˈprezəns/

the state of being present; current existence

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

RemarksnounUS /rɪˈmɑːrks/

plural of “remark” — a statement that expresses a personal opinion or belief or adds information

From this reading _Marrying for Love; for Money; for a Home; for a Housekeeper--Concluding Remarks._ Marrying for Love.

sayverbUS /seɪ/

express in words

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

shouldmodal verbUS /ʃʊd/

used to say what is right, expected, or advisable

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

spitenounUS /spaɪt/

feeling a need to see others suffer

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

sweetadjectiveUS /swiːt/

having or denoting the characteristic taste of sugar

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

thatconjunctionUS /ðæt/

used to introduce what somebody said, thought, or felt

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

thedeterminerUS /ðə/

used before a noun that is already known, already mentioned, or the only one of its kind

From this reading In spite of all that the cynics and pessimists may say, Love should be the Lord of Marriage.

TrueadjectiveUS /truː/

consistent with fact or reality; not false

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

wealthnounUS /welθ/

the state of being rich and affluent; having a plentiful supply of material goods and money

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

WhenconjunctionUS /wen/

at the time that

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

whileconjunctionUS /waɪl/

during the time that

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

WifenounUS /waɪf/

a married woman; a man's partner in marriage

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

withoutprepositionUS /wɪˈθaʊt/

not having, not using, or not accompanied by

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

worstnounUS /wɜːrst/

the least favorable outcome

From this reading True happiness cannot exist without it, however great the wealth or exalted the position of the married pair may be, while the worst evils of life are lightened and made bearable by its presence.

yokenounUS /joʊk/

fabric comprising a fitted part at the top of a garment

From this reading "How sweet the mutual yoke of Man and Wife When holy fires maintain Love's heavenly life!"

Chapter 22 of The Etiquette of Engagement and Marriage by G. R. M. Devereux holds 74 sentences, grouped into 15 reading sections of at most 5 sentences. The text is the source edition, unabridged, and the chapter records which sentences cover which part of the work so that nothing is dropped. Every word can be tapped for its pronunciation and dictionary entry.

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